friends

The further i venture into the mist of life, the more secrets i uncover.. in this post, the secret is about friends..

Well, good friends don come by every day.. but.. friends don stay long either..events happening around me lately has made me start thinking..are people around me friends, or are they just people i bump into who stay some time..??

Christians brothers and sisters aside.., i'm in a process of conducting an experiment..

Inference : friends don't stay long
Hypothesis : the closer u get to know someone, the closer u are to breaking that friendship..
Variables : Manipulated : material things
Responding : time of friendship
Constant : same friend
(haven't really thought about the rest yet..)

u know, when u watch those american movies which have the "cool group" and everybody follows them.. yeah.. Americans are always ahead of us.. they've figured it out... These type of "friends" are all over us.. right, left, up, down..qualities in a friend are no more in demand.. its only.. "what do u have".."how much are u willing to give".."are u cool".."do we tick at the same thing"..

yeah..these things will make u lots of close buddies in weeks.. but the truth about them is that u are expendable.. loose u, get another... even in basic human relation we are like that.. no wonder now ppl change husbands and wife like changing clothes.. to the world, its ok.. everybody is expandable.. only do what benefits u..

i've learnt that when u care too much, u only hurt urself..but when u don't care..that's not right..whats wrong with this world??

no wonder it's called a dog eat dog world.. everybody wants to bite the tail of the dog infront..